As a child, I was very interested in the paranormal, but I didn’t fully get interested in tarot cards until I was about 14. It started when my mum bought the Tarot of Marseilles deck, and I began playing around with them. I didn’t think much to the imagery, and I struggled to memorize the card meanings, I had to keep checking the little booklet that came with them. My mum kept getting the death card whenever I did a reading for her, so she soon became annoyed with them and I ended up keeping them for myself.

After the death of my dad, mum began visiting psychics, mediums and tarot readers on a regular basis. She started taking my little sister and I to psychic fairs. I remember getting a tarot reading when I was 14, it was the first one I’d had, and I didn’t think much to it. My mum swore by this guy, she said he was the best, but he didn’t have much to say to me and seemed to base his reading off my appearance and mannerisms. Recently, I’ve been thinking about that tarot reading, and I wonder if maybe it wasn’t very good, because I was just a kid. I had no career, no love life, no real problems and I didn’t need to worry about finances or relationships. It was supposed to be a general reading, but apart from reading what kind of a person I am, or what kind of a person I’m going to be. There wasn’t a lot to go on or talk about, I didn’t really have a life. Sure, he could have picked up that I was depressed because my father had recently passed away, but I already knew that, and no message from the tarot could change that. Only time could heal me, which it did.

A lot of tarot card readers insist that a client must be over 18 to receive a tarot reading. It makes sense in some ways because as a society, we like to protect our children. Fortune telling and tarot cards are sometimes considered to be evil or demonic in our western society. There’s also the problem of a child being told something by a tarot reader that could disturb them, and then the tarot reader could lose business. Finally, online tarot readers are likely to refuse their services to under eighteens because it is assumed that children and teens don’t make their own money.

I have personally never performed a tarot reading for someone under 18. I have never specified that I will only do readings for adults, but that just seems to be the way it has been for me. When I imagine what kinds of things a young teenager would ask in a tarot reading, it makes me think that maybe it’s for the best that no young people have come to me.. after all, I was a teenager once, and I was a completely different person from the person I am today. It doesn’t seem necessary for a child or teen to have a tarot reading, they are ready to go out into the world and discover who they really are. A tarot reading isn’t going to help them do that, they will do it all by themselves. When life starts to get more complicated and confusing, and when you have to make huge decisions, then a tarot reading becomes an interesting prospect that can help and guide you. This doesn’t usually start to happen until you’re at least in your late teens and early twenties.

In conclusion, if a teenager wants a tarot reading, then fair enough, they should definitely get one. It’ll be fun for them, enjoyable and they might learn a few things about themselves. Is it important for a teenager to get a tarot reading? probably not. It is important to remember that every person is unique, and every situation is different. Some teenagers might be under a lot more stress than others, some may have very real problems! and I don’t just mean problems like trying to get their crush to notice them. For some teenagers, a tarot card reading could be very therapeutic for them, and could help them with the difficult situations they might be in. For most teenagers though, asking the tarot whether the boy they like, likes them back might seem like a waste of time, since a lot of what happens during childhood and adolescence is temporary. I look back on the boys I liked in school and cringe. I imagine most adults look back at the boyfriends and girlfriends they had in school, and wonder why they got so upset when they broke up. I suppose the conclusion is, yes teenagers (probably not children under 12) should be able to get a tarot reading if they want one, however they’re less likely to need one.

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  1. Thanks for your post Morgantarot. For me, tarot has been a self help tool. I rarely read tarot for anyone else, When it happens tarot then becomes a therapeutic tool. A teaching tool. I show them how I do it and they can try it at home. On their own, for their own self healing. Tarot, massage, or energy work, calls on me to use my therapeutic skills to have a successful session.

    In massage therapy, when working with a young person, a parent is always in the room and the session then is meant to show the parent how to do the massage for their child. When someone young, or a naive adult comes to me for service, It becomes my responsibility to protect their innocence. It becomes more about therapy than about the massage. Since I’m in this business I’d like to study psychology more to compliment my massage work.

    Peace

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    1. Yes you make a good point, I didn’t mention parental supervision, which I probably should have. I think that when it comes to the tarot or energy work, it’s best to have an adult there with the child because they can help them understand the session better and they can learn from it too.

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  2. Interesting question. I suppose it depends on the teen or child – about whether they are mature enough to receive a reading and how they may react to it. If a child grows up with adults who get readings or who do readings, I would assume this child would understand more of what the tarot is about. But yes, good to at least address the question.

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    1. Yes I agree with you, I think some children would be perfectly fine with it, because they’re more spiritual and have grown up in the kind of environment where tarot reading might be quite normal. I think other children and definitely children of religious families might freak out haha.

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  3. I think young people should only have a reading if they seek them, not because a parent suggests or encourages it. I’ve had good readings and absurd ones. Kids need to know going into one that not everyone who does readings is skilled.

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    1. That’s very true, I think that it should be up to the young person whether they want to have a reading or not. It’s hit and miss with tarot readers. Sometimes a connection is instantly formed, and even world renowned psychics and readers won’t be able to form a connection with everyone they meet.

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  4. My Mom used to do fortune card readings, with a regular deck of cards, for her friends, and I loved watching her. I started asking her, when I was 9, to do a reading for me, but she would say I was too young. After I turned 13, she did a reading for me and she interpreted all business stuff to school stuff. I loved it! She continued to do readings for me until I was 15, then, she abruptly stopped one day after she correctly predicted 2 deaths in a reading for a friend.

    When I got married, I begged her to teach me how to do card readings and she did. Then I bought my first Tarot deck, and I was hooked. I’ve been using the same deck for over 40 years now, so they’re very tuned into me. 😊

    Loved this post! Brought back a lot of great memories. Thanks for sharing.πŸ˜ŠπŸ’œπŸŒ·

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    1. Aww that’s a great story, thanks for sharing. It was a good idea for your mom to interpret career and business stuff as school stuff. I really do think that the longer you have a deck of tarot cards, the more connected you become to them, so after 40 years you must be very connected. Thank you for reading my post πŸ™‚

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      1. You’re welcome. πŸ™‚ You have a fan in me because I love reading about the Tarot and the Paranormal.

        I shared this story in my metaphysical category on my blog. If you get a chance, you should stop by for a read.

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      2. Wow thank you so much πŸ™‚ I love your blog, I’ve just finished reading your article about betrayal. As someone who was recently betrayed it was an interesting read, especially when it comes to the ways we deal with betrayal, it really hit home.

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  5. My pals and I toyed around with Ouija boards and Tarot decks when we were barely in our teens. We didn’t really “connect” with the boards, but we did continue with Tarot because we found some value in them. We were not heavily into them, though. My interest in the cards rekindled during the New Age boom in San Francisco and the South Bay Area. I cast astrology charts for entertainment value for friends who asked. The Tarot was reserved for more contemplative, meditative times. I never had a psychic connection, per se, with the cards, it’s just that they merged with my journey at the time. I still have a few decks at home. In fact, I just happen to have an old Rider deck my cousin bought as a birthday gift way back when I lived in San Francisco in the late hippie era.

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    1. That’s really cool. I’ve had an astrology chart done for me before, it was really accurate. I have never really had a lot of luck with ouija boards either, 9 out of 10 times, the planchette didn’t even move haha

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