Getting a Tarot reading can be useful when you’re at a crossroads. They can help guide you when you feel lost, and they can enable you to discover who you are, where you’ve been and where you’re going. Here is a list of reasons why you should get a tarot reading and reasons why you shouldn’t.
Reasons TO get a reading
You have a problem at work
Maybe you feel like your boss doesn’t respect you or you’re thinking about changing jobs.. maybe you don’t get on with your coworkers. Work is often a big part of someone’s life and if there are issues with your work, you may need someone to talk to about it, and most importantly, someone to guide you. Having a Tarot reading can help you see things more clearly, it can advise you on your next career move and it can inform you on what your boss or coworkers really think of you. Getting a Tarot reading that relates to your work can be very useful in the long run.
You have a problem with your partner
One of the most common reasons for someone to want a tarot reading is that they are having problems with a partner or spouse. Relationships are so important to us, we’re social creatures and desire love and affection. Having problems with a partner can be devastating.. whether it’s a case that a partner is cheating or lying or distant, it can be soul destroying when things aren’t going the way they should. A Tarot reading can help shed some light on the situation, it can advise you on what to do to make your relationship work again. The tarot has insight into how your partner really feels. It’s also important to remember that it has no problem telling you that the relationship is doomed. Sometimes knowing the truth is better than lying to yourself that everything is okay.
You can’t find love
Another big reason people flock to get tarot readings, is that they feel unloved. For them it seems like an uphill struggle to find ‘The One’ They worry that they will never find true love or even some kind of meaningful relationship. The Tarot can not only advise you on how to go about finding love, but it can predict who your ideal soulmate is and how you will meet them.
You need to make an important decision
When you’re at a crossroads, you can end up going back and fourth in your head. Indecisiveness is not just a human failing, sometimes you can’t make a decision because it really is just that difficult! adding up the pros and cons can help but even then, you might not be sure of what your heart really wants. A tarot reading will help you get in touch with your inner self and guide you to make the right decision for you.
You need to discover what you really want out of life
Worse than being at a crossroads, is not really understanding what you want in general. I’ve done a lot of general readings and they’re the best type of readings for someone who wants to know more about themselves. It’s great to get insight into who you really are and where you should be going to achieve a happier and more productive you! Whether it’s a case of needing guidance for the coming year or wanting to know what the rest of your life has in store for you, you can’t go wrong with a general reading to better understand yourself on a deeper level.
Reasons NOT to get a reading
To get a second opinion
Sometimes you get a tarot reading from someone and it makes no sense to you, maybe it had mainly bad news and you feel annoyed by this. Maybe it just seemed completely wrong about everything. You have to remember that the reading might actually have been very accurate, you just haven’t realised that yet. It’s always best to wait a while to see what happens. If it turns out that the reading you had really was wrong, then you can get a second reading from someone else. After all there is a chance that the first tarot reader you went to didn’t connect with you on a spiritual and emotional level. It’s always best to wait and see first before wasting your money and getting the exact same reading from someone else.
You need financial assistance
A lot of tarot readers refuse to give financial advice, mainly because they could get it wrong and land you in a lot of trouble. As precise as a tarot reading can be, there are no guarantees that a tarot reader is going to be right 100% of the time. You also don’t want to go to a tarot reader if you’re feeling depressed and suicidal or if you’re terminally ill and you’re hoping the tarot will present a miracle cure. There is no problem with having a tarot reading during these times, but it is advised that you seek professional help as well. A tarot reader can not make your financial situation improve or cure your illnesses or make you less suicidal. A tarot reading can only guide you in the right direction when it comes to matters like that.
You want to talk with a deceased person
I’ve experienced this a lot as a tarot reader, I get someone who is very upset and troubled because they’ve lost a loved one and they’re desperate to speak to them again. As lovely as it would be to be able to connect someone with a deceased loved one, I am not a medium. The tarot cards might be guided by the hand of a dead loved one, I can’t rule that out! but it can’t convey messages from the dead in any real sense.
As bizarre as it might be to some people, there are people out there who get addicted to having tarot readings. It is actually very understandable.. You’ve got a person there, who is willing to listen to your problems and help you through them, they appear to have all the answers and they take a lot of the pressure off you. They compliment you and make you feel like you’re special, which of course you are! but you don’t need to hear this all the time. It’s better to have a tarot reading that is recorded or in email form, so you can keep looking back at it. You only need to go for a tarot reading when you’re in need of answers for something specific. If you go to a tarot reader every time something different crops up, you’re gonna end up spending quite a lot of money for the same kinds of readings. You need to pace yourself when it comes to getting readings. Only get one when it’s truly needed. Sometimes you’ll need guidance several times in a week or month and then you’re fine for years. Some people like to get a reading a couple of times a year, just to see what is in store for them in the coming months. As long as you know that you are capable of making your own decisions sometimes without the help of a tarot reading, then that’s okay.